My man, Strib. . . a Mississippi treasure
Posted on: October 23,2012
|Lafayette Stribling and me at the MHSAA State Tournament in 2010.|
ITTA BENA − Fifty−one years ago, Lafayette Stribling, the son of poor Leake County sharecroppers, graduated from Harmony Vocational High School in Carthage. He had to borrow a friend’s suit for the ceremony.
He has never forgotten.
“I promised myself, ‘One day I’m gonna have me a suit of my own, and I’m not going to have to wear somebody else’s clothes,’ ” Stribling said Monday afternoon in the living room of his Greenwood home.
Boy, did Lafayette Stribling − Mississippi Valley State’s basketball coach and Strib to his friends − ever keep that promise.
No visit to Stribling’s Greenwood home is complete without a visit to his “closet.” The closet is actually a converted bedroom containing approximately 200 mostly tailored suits of all cuts and colors, 12 tuxedos, nearly 200 pairs of shoes, about 50 top hats and one mink coat that cost more than Stribling used to make in a year.
For Valley’s SWAC regular season championship−clinching victory over Prairie View Monday night, Strib chose a dashing yellow number, a Giorgio design, with a purple shirt, purple− and yellow−striped tie, purple shoes and purple socks.
You’ll have to trust me on this: Most of us would look silly, but Strib looked like he was born to wear that suit.
“Some people drink and smoke and spend a bunch of money of whiskey and cigarettes,” Stribling said. “Clothes are my vice.”
And basketball is his business. The 58−39 victory Monday night was the 299th of Stribling’s Valley career.
He won more than 900 games as a high school coach, mostly at South Leake, before the Valley job came open in 1983. Hard to believe now, but Strib was actually MVSU’s second choice for the job.
Jim Coleman, then Valley’s athletic director, offered the job to Rust College’s Leland Hays first.
“He turned it down,” Stribling said, chuckling. “He took one look at the schedule and one look at what he had coming back and said he couldn’t win a single game.
“So they called me and asked me if I was interested,” Stribling said. “I told them I’d think about it, which really wasn’t true. I would have walked to Itta Bena for a chance to be a college coach. That’s what I always wanted to be. That was my career goal.”
Strib drove to Itta Bena the next day − in a green suit and red tie (Valley’s colors), of course, and took the job.
“The president asked me what salary it would take for me to come,” Strib said, laughing again. “I had a figure in mind, but I wanted the job so bad I gave them a number that was $3,000 less than what I really wanted. I figured I could get the money right if I could just get the job.”
He did, and MVSU basketball − and Stribling’s closet − have prospered since. Valley finished 15−12 that first season, marking the first winning season the school had achieved since elevating to Division I.
Just as importantly, Strib spent much of that first year on the recruiting trail, signing such future stars as George Ivory, Mark Coleman, Joe McKinley and brothers Mike and Keith Ferguson. Four years later, those players would be the cornerstone of the most famous Valley team in school history and the most famous underdogs in college basketball history.
Valley won its first SWAC title that year, then faced top−seeded Duke in the first round of the 1986 NCAA Tournament in Duke’s backyard in Greensboro, N.C. It was No. 1 vs. No. 64. Prohibitive underdogs, the Delta Devils scared the bejeeezus out of the Blue Devils, leading by 7 in the second half before losing four players to fouls and losing in the final two minutes. Duke fans gave Valley players − and the resplendent Strib − a standing ovation.
“That one put us on the map,” Stribling said. “That was when the legislature was talking about closing down the Valley, and then we got all that national attention. I’m not saying we saved the school, but we certainly didn’t hurt. Instead of shutting us down, they brought us to Jackson and had a big ceremony to honor us.”
It was the first of three trips to the NCAA Tournament for Strib−coached Valley teams. Can’t you just imagine how much he’d love to make it four this year at an age, 69, when most of his peers have long since quit coaching?
Now in his 47th season, Strib has survived prostate cancer, congestive heart failure, two leaking heart valves and an irregular heartbeat.
But he has lost more than 20 pounds on a new fitness routine.
“I’ve never felt better,” he said Monday afternoon.
He has rarely, if ever, coached better. Heading into a Saturday night game at Jackson State, Valley, picked to finish in the middle of the SWAC pack, has run away from the field with a 13−2 league record, 19−6 overall.
“You do something for 47 years,” Strib said, “you learn a little something.”
How to dress is only part of it.